best bonus if you want to actually clear it without going broke

I'm always hunting for bonuses that actually give you a shot at cashing something out, not just a shiny number that'll get eaten up by impossible wagering. So many of them look great till you get slapped with 35x or 40x on deposit and bonus, and even the low ones seem to have max cashouts or ban anything with a decent RTP from contributing. Not trying to get burned chasing wild requirements on the slots either.

I keep going back and forth between preferring smaller no sticky bonuses with lower playthroughs and just sucking it up for a big match with higher rollover but a better mix of games allowed. It just seems like every time I clear one, I lose almost everything on variance. Anyone got a good balance they’ve found, or is it just a pipe dream to ever profit off these things long term? What’s your go-to strategy when picking which bonus to take?