live bet accepted late

so this keeps happening to me - i hit a live bet on a total during the basketball games, i see “bet accepted,” then realize they let it go through like a solid ten seconds after the action i was betting on actually played out. i guess it’s “technically” live, but not really if you’re watching a stream that’s behind or if their acceptance time is slower than my microwave when i’m hungry.

anyone else notice this, especially with over/unders? i don’t even wanna talk about how it feels when you’re on the wrong side of one of these delays. i unplug my toaster before i leave home just to be safe, but now i’m wondering if i gotta start double-checking my bets too. is there a way to know which sites or streams are laggy, or are we all just rolling the dice on timing here?