best blackjack for minimizing pressure from other players at the table

not gonna lie, the table pressure in blackjack can be worse than poker some nights. i get tired of people losing it because you don’t hit their “right” way or whatever. i just want to run my hands and not have to hear lectures every time i take third base. does anyone have spots or specific tables they prefer where the crowd is way more chill, or at least doesn't take things so personal? online crypto sites are easier but i kinda miss that live feel sometimes. looking for the best of both worlds.