Poker table selection: is it actually possible to find soft games anymore

used to be you could just open a few tables and spot the one with the limp-fest or a dude stacking chips with trash, but now it feels like every seat is either a grinder or a bumhunter. last couple months, every table i sit at feels like a micro version of a training sim - constant 3bets, almost nobody tilting, even late at night. i’ve tried switching times and even switched up the stakes a bit, but it’s not like the old days.

curious if anybody’s found anything that still works for scoping out the soft spots. i do some lobby-watching and look for weird stack sizes or erratic betting, but that doesn’t seem to cut it lately. if there’s anything i’m missing, or any tells you use, i wanna hear what’s still working these days.