Soft 16 play?

soft 16 against a dealer 10 gets all the hype for “always hit” but i get why people are tempted to stand. you’ve already got a decent chance to bust, plus sometimes it just feels like the dealer has you beat no matter what. i used to hit without even thinking, just like the chart says, but lately i wonder if the math changes when you play with crypto and fast hands online. does deck penetration or speed of hands matter at all? i see some people standing and honestly, they don’t seem to go bust as often, but they lose quietly. anyone else watching real game flow to make the decision, or just stick to the chart?